September 5, 2006
Do What?!? Getting Over Fears of Public Speaking
If you consider the facts available regarding public speaking and fear, you may be lead many to believe that these two things are joined at the hip. However, the real truth of the matter is that public speaking doesn't necessarily have to lead to an overwhelming level of dread. Fortunately, with the information you'll find within this article, you'll be better prepared to meet your public speaking goals without having to stress about, well, stressing about it! Getting over fears of public speaking is within the grasp of everyone, as long as you're willing to give it all you've got.
But before we can really give you the keys to help you successfully manage panic and anxiety when it's time to engage in public speaking, it's first necessary to figure out what level of fear speaking in public inspires in you.
The Fear of Public Speaking: A Broad Definition
Many people equate fear with panic attacks, and while that is a condition suffered by some public speakers, most of us will likely suffer from a much milder problem. What's the difference?
Well, a panic attack is an intense and sudden feeling of fear and anxiety that is often associated with physical symptoms such as rapid heart beat, trembling, shortness of breaths, feeling pins and needles as well as the possibility of feeling faint. The on-set of a panic attack may leave you in fear that you'll suffer to the point of collapse or even death. The worst of panic attacks lasts from around twenty to thirty minutes and are often linked in a series of recurrent, unexpected episodes of severe anxiety and distress.
Of course, not everything we call a "panic attack" is a real panic attack, and anxiety of public speaking can come in multiple forms. Indeed, when it comes to the fear of public speaking, there are many different names you might hear connected with anxiety.
Some call it performance anxiety, stage fright, panic, phobia of public speaking, speech anxiety, speech phobia, or, of course, just plain shyness. However, it should come as no surprise that there are so many different names for the fear of public speaking when you take into consideration the fact that in the US and the UK, the fear of public speaking surpasses even the fear of dying!
So, What Exactly Is The Big Deal?
Statistics like that can leave you questioning why the fear of public speaking is so crushing all across the board. At the root of the problem is the fact that there are increased trends for even ordinary, everyday citizens to find themselves in positions of having to offer speeches, reports, and presentations in front of groups at work, school and other arenas of life. And most ordinary people feel woefully incompetent when it comes time to inform a crowd, even if they happen to be highly qualified and successful members of their particular industry or organization.
Where does this fear come from? The fear of public speaking stems from our natural ingrained flight and fight instinct. And while speaking in front of an audience isn't quite a threat to our survival, it IS a very real imagined threat to our egos, confidence and capability.
When suddenly called upon to confront a crowd, you may find yourself experiencing some (or any combination) of the following symptoms:
- A shaky voice
- Blushing or flushing
- Inability to make eye contact
- Inability to speak
- Nausea
- Rapid breathing
- Shaky hands and/or knees.
- Shortness of breath, or
- Sweating
By learning to recognize your own symptoms, you'll be better able to measure your level of angst when it comes to public speaking. You'll also be able to identify key areas of physical or emotional response that call for notice or change.
Tips for Separating Public Speaking and Fear…
There are many techniques that you can utilize to your advantage as you set out to eliminate fear from public speaking.
The first of these is to really learn and acknowledge the fact that public speaking is NOT inherently stressful. But how can you do that? Simply study other public speakers that you admire or wish to emulate. Seek out those who enjoy public speaking and learn from their personal tips and ideas. It just might be what the doctor ordered to help you get your own anxiety under control. And of course, never forget that old adage, "Practice makes perfect…"
Another essential step for managing your anxiety is to come to terms with the reality that you don't have to be brilliant or perfect in order to be a success. All you have to do is have a message that's intended to occupy and profit your audience in some way, and success is virtually guaranteed!
Additionally, you may want to insure that you're not overdoing things. Your speech shouldn't be a lecture or a dissertation. Instead, limit yourself to a max of two or three main points, with no more than three supporting points for each. Structure your speech according to these principles and you'll find it much easier to keep your wits on track, your audience focused and your anxiety levels low.
Also, be sure that you don't over-exaggerate your role as a public speaker. Try to find various ways of thinking about what you're actually doing. Consider yourself an informer, an educator, a powerful example, or a sharer of enlightenment. Find new focuses of your role as a public speaker and highlight those that leave you more comfortable and secure in your own ability.
Learn to loosen up. And I don't mean just while you're on stage, do it all of the time. Practice methods of meditation, tranquility therapy, relaxation or creative visualization techniques that are able to help you reduce stress and enlarge the strength and power of both your mind and your performance as a public speaker. Then, once you've mastered these techniques away from the stage, you can start to integrate them into your speaking performances to help moderate any symptoms of anxiety that may still plague you.
Finally, never forget that when it comes to public speaking, your audience WANTS you to succeed! They want you to give a darn good speech, full of useful, practical information that they can take home with them and use to make a difference in their own lives and the lives of others.
No one came there to have their time wasted, or even to waste your time. They want to be entertained, and believe it or not, they want to like you. So, when you're standing up there, fearing the approach of a non-existent panic attack, remember that the audience is on your side.
As with any good thing you can hope to have, time and practice and continued effort are the most surefire ways to succeed in any endeavor, and this applies to public speaking as much as it does to anything else. All you have to do is know from the start that public speaking and panic attacks don't have to go hand in hand!
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